This particular incident took place a couple of years ago when I was doing my overseas vacation internship in Beijing, China. During one of the weekend afternoons, I was brought to the Beijing Zoo by my internship mentor and a colleague. The whole unpleasant incident started after my zoo visit when I realized that the sole of my shoe had come off. Then, my mentor suggested buying a new pair from a wholesale clothes and accessories market opposite to the zoo. Unexpectedly, this particular visit to the “Dong Wu Yuan” (the name of the shopping place) became the most memorable incident of my entire internship.
At the start, I was told by my colleagues that this shopping place is always very crowded during the weekends as it is a favourite with the locals for the cheap bargains. He also mentioned that one needs to be able to bargain well in order to get good deals. True to his words, the place was very messy like a “war-zone” and noisy with people actively promoting their sale items. I soon found a pair of sneakers to my liking and began to haggle with a lady shopkeeper over the price. Realizing that I was not as eloquent at bargaining as her, I stopped arguing with her over the price and asked to try the shoes first. However, upon trying the shoes, I found the material to be very stiff and uncomfortable and then decided to leave the shop. To my utmost horror, the shopkeeper then pulled me back into the shop by tugging at the strap of my bag. I was shocked at her demeanor and continued to walk away. Suddenly, two fellow shopkeepers came forward and stopped me from leaving. Fortunately, my colleagues spotted me in this fix and came forward to confront these unruly shopkeepers. These shopkeepers then claimed that I had “discussed” the price with them and hence it was only right that I pay for the shoes. However, I maintained that I did not confirm that I was going to take that pair of shoes as they were uncomfortable. Those shopkeepers then continued to hurl nasty words at me and my colleagues and even claimed that we have no money to pay for the shoes. They continued to pull us back and scold us ferociously for reasons out of this world. It was only when my mentor called up the local authorities to report on this matter that the shopkeepers stopped following us and retreated back to their shop (grumbling along the way).
At the start, I was told by my colleagues that this shopping place is always very crowded during the weekends as it is a favourite with the locals for the cheap bargains. He also mentioned that one needs to be able to bargain well in order to get good deals. True to his words, the place was very messy like a “war-zone” and noisy with people actively promoting their sale items. I soon found a pair of sneakers to my liking and began to haggle with a lady shopkeeper over the price. Realizing that I was not as eloquent at bargaining as her, I stopped arguing with her over the price and asked to try the shoes first. However, upon trying the shoes, I found the material to be very stiff and uncomfortable and then decided to leave the shop. To my utmost horror, the shopkeeper then pulled me back into the shop by tugging at the strap of my bag. I was shocked at her demeanor and continued to walk away. Suddenly, two fellow shopkeepers came forward and stopped me from leaving. Fortunately, my colleagues spotted me in this fix and came forward to confront these unruly shopkeepers. These shopkeepers then claimed that I had “discussed” the price with them and hence it was only right that I pay for the shoes. However, I maintained that I did not confirm that I was going to take that pair of shoes as they were uncomfortable. Those shopkeepers then continued to hurl nasty words at me and my colleagues and even claimed that we have no money to pay for the shoes. They continued to pull us back and scold us ferociously for reasons out of this world. It was only when my mentor called up the local authorities to report on this matter that the shopkeepers stopped following us and retreated back to their shop (grumbling along the way).
After we got back to our residences, my mentor explained that this was an incident of “overboard forced selling”, and he added that those shopkeepers were pretending to be very fierce to scare me as a foreigner into buying something that I don’t want. Then, he added that it was fortunate that I didn’t retaliate when they pulled my bag as it could give them more opportunities to “hold against” us. Then, he also apologized for not warning me earlier that most locals will usually try on the items after agreeing on the sale price. Thus, when I asked to try the shoes, they probably thought that the deal was confirmed. However, we agreed that this doesn’t mean that I cannot refuse to buy the item and it certainly does not warrant for the "physical attacks" at our bags and T-shirts.
All in all, I have come to understand that cultural differences are part and parcel of mankind in the numerous global living spaces and knowledge will (in most cases) enable us to effectively embrace this interesting social phenomenon everywhere.